I've been a little behind on our pregnancy update. We've had a couple scares lately- which has resulted in the ever so dreaded BED REST. On February 17th, after working a much longer day that I had been advised not to (10 1/2 hr day to be exact)- I had my first complication with my placenta previa. I called the on-call at 10:00 pm- and was advised that I needed to head to the hospital immediately. Rob and I were completely caught off guard- we had just put Grayden down for bed, and with no family in town, we hadn't set up any plans for an emergency hospital visit. So we woke him up, and the 3 of us headed to the hospital. I spent the night in the hospital and after 24 hours of monitoring, my OB said I could go home on strict bed-rest. STRICT BED REST??? Basically I was given instructions that I was allowed to get up to use the bathroom and shower. Mind you- at the time I was 28 1/2 weeks. I asked my doctor when I could return to work and she said we could discuss once I get closer to 34 weeks. I was also given 2 shots of steroids while in the hospital to help with lung development. Fast forward one long week of bed rest later, I had a f/u appointment on Friday, February 24th. I was actually looking forward to that appointment- as it was my first time out of the house in a week- and Rob had agreed to stop at Sweet Cece's afterwards for some frozen yogurt. I had an ultrasound first and confirmed my placenta was still a complete previa. I then met with my OB- who informed me that my amniotic fluid levels had dropped to a 2. Two weeks prior- my level was a 12. She said this was concerning because it could mean several things - problems with my placenta, leaking fluids, etc- and so- I was sent to labor and delivery to be admitted to the hospital. Are you kidding? 2 hospital visits within a week of each other? I was admitted- in which I was given an excessive amt of IV fluids. One of the possible reasons for my low fluid levels was possible dehydration- I had a f/u ultrasound 24 hours later and my levels resumed to a 9- so I was sent home on strict bed rest- and instructed to increase my fluid intake. We are now at 31 weeks. - I had an appointment last week and my ultrasound showed that my levels are back up to 13, baby is growing well, I still have a complete previa, and still to be on bed rest. I was given permission to up my activity- which basically means I can "piddle" more (to quote my OB). She said I still can't work, no exercise, no standing, no cooking, no cleaning, no lifting...which means I do a whole lot of NOTHING. The plan is to continue to monitor my placenta previa- and if it persists (most likely will)- I will be scheduled for a c-section between 37 to 38 weeks.
So. That is where we currently are. I have to say we are so blessed with family, friends, and our church family who have been so overwhelmingly helpful. I have had to take short term disability for work, which in itself is a bit stressful, but we are prayerful that God will continue to bless us and watch over us. We ask for prayers during the last 6-9 weeks of our pregnancy. We are anxiously awaiting his arrival- but we want him to stay in as long as possible! We also want to announce that we have decided on name- for those who may have missed the memo: We are happy to introduce Grayden's baby brother- as Reed Emerson.
Please keep baby Reed and myself in your prayers- We'll continue to keep you updated.
Wednesday, March 9, 2011
Friday, February 11, 2011
Updates, Updates!
Last I posted, I announced the upcoming arrival of our second child. Since then, we've found out that Grayden will be the big brother to (surprise, enter gasp reaction here!)- a baby brother! I had a feeling we'd be bringing another rambunctious Hartman boy into this world but secretly held on to the hope of a girl. Since, my initial disappointment- (I was really hoping for some dresses and bows around here)- I've grown to be very excited about having another sweet baby boy in this family. Our approximate due date is May 11th which puts me at 27 weeks currently. I've had a few more complications this time around- I was diagnosed with placenta previa early on and have had to have ultrasounds every 4 weeks to see if it would resolve (it still hasn't). Since my initial complications and a few bed rest scares, things have been good thus far, however if I still have a previa closer to my due date, I'll have to have a scheduled c-section, which I'm really having a hard time coming to terms with. I had such a great delivery experience with Grayden and was hoping for a similar experience. It's true that each pregnancy is truly different. For example, do you have any idea how much you pee yourself during the second pregnancy?!? I am only 27 weeks and have already peed myself like 5 times! Are you kidding me!?! Anyway, we'd appreciate any prayers on behalf of the rest of this pregnancy, my bladder, my placenta, baby boy's continued health, and the upcoming delivery.
And as you can see, we have not yet decided on a name for this sweet boy. We currently call him Horatio, because I was tired of little man and baby boy. Our goal is to decide on a name soon, as I'd like to have a few monogrammed things this time around.
Grayden has exploded into a full out big boy. I can't get over his full sentences, his amazing smarts (he truly is a genius), and his hilarious and amazing personality. He makes us laugh on a daily basis. He is currently very much into football (yes, still), Buzz and Woody, bicycles, Super Mario brothers, video games, and playing swords (which can be any object, really). He loves to sing and dance, try to ride his dog, Riley like a horse, and have tickle fights in bed. He is going to be an amazing big brother and I'm so happy that he is going to have a lifelong brother/playmate. I just can't believe he'll be 3 in less than 1 month! We've got to get this potty training going...(my child hates the idea of using the potty. I'm really hoping for some progress soon.)
In the ramblings of our life, Rob and I are just enjoying our sweet family and preparing to put our house on the market... YIKES. We bought this house, knowing that we didn't want to stay forever, and we've put quite a bit of work into it, and are ready to move on- Keep us in your prayers over the next few months- as we prepare to put the house on the market come March/April.
| Friends Grayden and Brayden at the Zoo. (Rob took both the boys on his own! |
| Grayden at the Zoo on a pretty January day! |
| Sleepy boys! |
| 26 weeks |
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| Baby "Horatio" at 27 weeks. His legs are over top his head. |
Friday, November 12, 2010
Growing
This Hartman family is growing. We are so excited to announce (a little late here) that our family of 3 is becoming a family of 4. Now, I'm not leaving Riley out, I just don't want to confuse anyone by saying we are becoming a family of 5- that is how rumors are spread- and no I'm not pregnant with twins. I may look like I'm carrying twins, but I have been assured that there is just one little bean sprout growing. The new addition to our family will be arriving on or around May 11th. I'm just about 15 weeks along and probably already look 25 weeks pregnant. Okay...not really, but I am in awe of how much faster the second baby bump grows. I had to bust out the maternity clothes like 3 weeks ago! This pregnancy has been much different than the first in several other ways too. I remember being sick with Grayden...but I don't remember being this sick. My designated sick times are somewhere between 4:30 and 6:30 pm. This is also the time I am usually driving home from work. Throwing up in the car while driving is a task that I never thought I would have to master...but I must say I've become a pro. I apologize if I just made anyone sick. Other things have been different too- however, some are just too personal to share on a blog post, so I will reserve those to myself.
In other things growing- Grayden is becoming such a big boy. I can't begin to tell you how much joy he brings Rob and I (and everyone else who comes in contact with him). He is such a good little boy....tantrums are fewer than before and his language is exploding. It amazes me how quickly his little brain learns things. He's doing great in his Tuesday/Thursday school and has learned so much!
He's not 100% sure what Mommy and Daddy mean when we say he is going to be a big brother, but he seems to get excited. When I show him my belly and tell him baby, he lifts his shirt, point to his belly, and says baby! Now, I assure you that my son does know that his belly is a belly, he just thinks he has a baby in his belly too. The first time we told Grayden he would be a big brother, we asked him if he wanted a baby brother or sister, he responded with "baby cookie!". He called the baby "baby cookie" for awhile and now when we ask him if he wants a brother or a sister, he changes his mind about 3-4 times, such as "brother!, no, sister!, no, brother!, no BABY!". We are sure that he will be a great big brother to either, a brother or a sister. However, I will say that I have resolved myself to the fact that we are having another boy. As Rob says, "Hartman's only make boys"...and this has been proven to me when I found out that my sister in law who is due in March is infact- having another boy. So, the world need be prepared for 4 little boy cousins and grandboys in the Hartman family. Now, I must say, that I have not actually had "the" ultrasound (probably in a few weeks), but you can just know, that we will be having another boy.
I have lots of pictures to update with- but haven't gotten around to uploading off my camera, so Halloween and pictures of late will be coming. Until then, enjoy this one of our little Grayden sharing his exciting news.
In other things growing- Grayden is becoming such a big boy. I can't begin to tell you how much joy he brings Rob and I (and everyone else who comes in contact with him). He is such a good little boy....tantrums are fewer than before and his language is exploding. It amazes me how quickly his little brain learns things. He's doing great in his Tuesday/Thursday school and has learned so much!
He's not 100% sure what Mommy and Daddy mean when we say he is going to be a big brother, but he seems to get excited. When I show him my belly and tell him baby, he lifts his shirt, point to his belly, and says baby! Now, I assure you that my son does know that his belly is a belly, he just thinks he has a baby in his belly too. The first time we told Grayden he would be a big brother, we asked him if he wanted a baby brother or sister, he responded with "baby cookie!". He called the baby "baby cookie" for awhile and now when we ask him if he wants a brother or a sister, he changes his mind about 3-4 times, such as "brother!, no, sister!, no, brother!, no BABY!". We are sure that he will be a great big brother to either, a brother or a sister. However, I will say that I have resolved myself to the fact that we are having another boy. As Rob says, "Hartman's only make boys"...and this has been proven to me when I found out that my sister in law who is due in March is infact- having another boy. So, the world need be prepared for 4 little boy cousins and grandboys in the Hartman family. Now, I must say, that I have not actually had "the" ultrasound (probably in a few weeks), but you can just know, that we will be having another boy.
I have lots of pictures to update with- but haven't gotten around to uploading off my camera, so Halloween and pictures of late will be coming. Until then, enjoy this one of our little Grayden sharing his exciting news.
And enjoy this one- of our little bean sprout who at the time of this ultrasound was about
1 1/2 inches long (10 weeks) Now baby is about the size of an apple!
Sunday, August 29, 2010
Way Over Due: Summarizing Summer
Wow..surprise, surprise- guess who is behind in their blogging?
I have to admit, it's not that I'm ignorant to my lack of blog postings. I check my blog roll everyday, which requires me to see my own lack of postings. However, whenever I start to write, I become very overwhelmed with everything I have failed to post! Our summer has been a whirlwind of busyness. I am not sure I even know where to begin, so instead I will just tell you what these past weeks have entailed.
Our hilarious 2 year old man continues to bring happiness to our lives. He's blossomed into a true toddler. His language has exploded and if I had to predict what he would be when he grows up at this point, I would suggest an OCD singing football player. Grayden LOVES football....I don't think I can fully explain how MUCH he loves football. He lives, eats, and breathes all things football. As soon as he wakes up he asks "football tv!" which means, "turn on football please". When we change him, he asks "football shirt please!", which means he would like to wear his OSU football jersery- in which he has worn for 4 days in a row this week....(we have to pry it off at night and wash it for the next day. he was devastated that I said no this morning. It's Sunday!), and he continually is acting out football- hiking the ball, tackling himself, and fumbling the ball-he even kicks off after he scores a touchdown. It's insanity- really it is. His other love is that of singing. And I can't leave out the dancing- he enjoys that too. About the OCD behaviors- we are hoping that this is just a stage.
Grayden has recently started Tuesday/Thursday school which he adores. He's only had 2 weeks so far- but he loves his teacher, Miss Karen and asks every time we get in the car if we are "class? go class? alright, class!" - which means "are we going to school? Yes? Alright! Class!". He gets very upset if we are driving to the store or dinner instead...obviously class is much more fun.
Recently he has found himself a new friend and sleep mate, One of our sweet ladies we used to be in small group with from church brought Grayden a Curious George and Grayden has been attached ever since. He also insists on sleeping with his ABC blanket that his Nana made him. We also (FINALLY) converted Grayden to his big boy toddler bed. He's done great! He hasn't once got up during the night or nap time. In fact I think he prefers to get in his bed himself.
To summarize our summer so far, we've mostly stayed in - it's been beyond hot here! We've made a trip to Cincinnati to see the Reds - and will probably making another trip come playoff time! We went to Gatlinburg for the annual family reunion, took a day trip to Chattanooga, been to the zoo, and had various other small adventures. I apologize if I've left anything or anyone out- my memory is suffering! I do have a bit of bittersweet news....Our roomate and good friend, Andy has gotten engaged!! We are more than excited and happy for him, but I will admit that I'm a bit sad to see our "second child" and friend leave the nest in the next few months. We love Lauren though- and we are so happy that they've found each other.
I'll leave you with a few pictures of the little man and I promise that I will TRY to do better about updating.
I have to admit, it's not that I'm ignorant to my lack of blog postings. I check my blog roll everyday, which requires me to see my own lack of postings. However, whenever I start to write, I become very overwhelmed with everything I have failed to post! Our summer has been a whirlwind of busyness. I am not sure I even know where to begin, so instead I will just tell you what these past weeks have entailed.
Our hilarious 2 year old man continues to bring happiness to our lives. He's blossomed into a true toddler. His language has exploded and if I had to predict what he would be when he grows up at this point, I would suggest an OCD singing football player. Grayden LOVES football....I don't think I can fully explain how MUCH he loves football. He lives, eats, and breathes all things football. As soon as he wakes up he asks "football tv!" which means, "turn on football please". When we change him, he asks "football shirt please!", which means he would like to wear his OSU football jersery- in which he has worn for 4 days in a row this week....(we have to pry it off at night and wash it for the next day. he was devastated that I said no this morning. It's Sunday!), and he continually is acting out football- hiking the ball, tackling himself, and fumbling the ball-he even kicks off after he scores a touchdown. It's insanity- really it is. His other love is that of singing. And I can't leave out the dancing- he enjoys that too. About the OCD behaviors- we are hoping that this is just a stage.
Grayden has recently started Tuesday/Thursday school which he adores. He's only had 2 weeks so far- but he loves his teacher, Miss Karen and asks every time we get in the car if we are "class? go class? alright, class!" - which means "are we going to school? Yes? Alright! Class!". He gets very upset if we are driving to the store or dinner instead...obviously class is much more fun.
Recently he has found himself a new friend and sleep mate, One of our sweet ladies we used to be in small group with from church brought Grayden a Curious George and Grayden has been attached ever since. He also insists on sleeping with his ABC blanket that his Nana made him. We also (FINALLY) converted Grayden to his big boy toddler bed. He's done great! He hasn't once got up during the night or nap time. In fact I think he prefers to get in his bed himself.
To summarize our summer so far, we've mostly stayed in - it's been beyond hot here! We've made a trip to Cincinnati to see the Reds - and will probably making another trip come playoff time! We went to Gatlinburg for the annual family reunion, took a day trip to Chattanooga, been to the zoo, and had various other small adventures. I apologize if I've left anything or anyone out- my memory is suffering! I do have a bit of bittersweet news....Our roomate and good friend, Andy has gotten engaged!! We are more than excited and happy for him, but I will admit that I'm a bit sad to see our "second child" and friend leave the nest in the next few months. We love Lauren though- and we are so happy that they've found each other.
I'll leave you with a few pictures of the little man and I promise that I will TRY to do better about updating.
| Grayden with his Papa |
| Graydenand his teacher Miss Karen |
| Going to school |
| At the zoo |
| Playing football |
Saturday, June 12, 2010
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